“Bro how the fuck do you not like your body”. I see more bottoms and vers people taking more pride in their bodies than tops ever do. Dick pics are chilling but they get old after a while man. For me, I’m the type that wants to see all facets of yourself more than just one private part. I want to see how you picture yourself and show yourself off. I get it though guys have preferences, not every gay is supposed to be the same let alone forced to express themselves in ways that feel uncomfortable to them but it doesn’t hurt to just loosen up and express more joy in your body and yourself. Maybe I enjoy modeling, or maybe I’m finally expressing more joy in my body than I ever did when I was younger but even as a top it really doesn’t hurt to flex and show off some more skin (more than the foreskin, lol).
If you’re modeling rather than doing several cringes poses you want the photographer to capture all the facets of yourself and give everyone a sense of the type of person you are. Statistically speaking when someone comes out as gay you’re often forced to pick a side. There’s never any in-between. Being a gay bottom is often associated with femineity and being a gay top is seen as masculine and close to what is considered the conditional norm seen in several (begrudging) cultures. I rarely see any gay tops trying to twerk a storm whenever a catchy/filthy song plays and honestly, I think it has everything to do with the culture. Some gay men have a habit of presenting themself as conditional to avoid backlash from families and friends because of how they were brought up. I’m usually the type to express myself in ways that would force people to get comfortable with their association with me. Because if you want to get to know me you should get to know the real aspects of me and what I represent.
Like I said, Tops should definitely start being more expressive with themselves instead of just being a bland type of person. I'm not saying be a thot. I'm just saying show more self-expression.
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